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MISTAKE 1
Being Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"
Have you ever noticed
that the really attractive women never seem
to be attracted to "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive
female friends that always seemed to date
"jerks"... but for some reason they were
never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on
how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men
they do because they feel a powerful GUT
LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that
powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE
you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of
logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT...
but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to
act on it, you'll NEVER have the success
with women that you want.
MISTAKE 2
Trying To "Convince Her To Like
You"
What do most guys do when they
meet a woman that they REALLY like... but
she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman
to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER
CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES
TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently
about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how
in the world do you expect to change that
FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,
plead, chase, and do our best to change
her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE 3
Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which
we mistakenly think will make them like
us), us guys are always doing things to
get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of
men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for
them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well
means "always getting her approval and permission
for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval.
Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek
their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman
if Wussy guys who chase her around and want
her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE 4
Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With
Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman
out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and
flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone
who didn't treat her even HALF as well as
you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen
a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear
message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I
am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention
and affection".
Your good intentions usually come across
to women as over-compensation for insecurity,
and weak attempts at manipulation. That's
right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE 5
Sharing "How You Feel"
Too Early In The Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake
that most men make with women is sharing
how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive
women are being approached in one way or
another ALL THE TIME.
An attractive woman is often approached
several times a DAY by men who are interested.
This translate into dozens of times per
week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT
of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women
off and sends her running away faster than
just about anything is a guy who starts
saying "You know, I really, REALLY like
you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just
like all the other guys who fall for her
too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE 6
Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For
WomenWomen are VERY different from
men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with
it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy
woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based
mostly on looks? Or is something else going
on?
Well, after studying this topic for over
five full years now, I can tell you that
women usually have their "attraction mechanisms"
triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot
more average and unattractive men with beautiful
women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities
in men... and they're attracted to the way
a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks
alone.
If you know how to use your body language
and communication correctly, you can make
women feel the same kind of powerful sexual
attraction to you that YOU feel when you
see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN
how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE 7
Thinking That
It Takes "Money And Looks"
One of the most common mistakes that
guys make is giving up before they've even
gotten started... because they think that
attractive women are only interested in
men who have looks and money... or guys
who are a certain height... or guys who
are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only
interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in
a man's personality than his wallet or his
looks.
There are personality traits that attract
women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to
use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman
just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to
use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same
kind of powerful sexual attraction to you
that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young
woman.
MISTAKE 8
Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake
to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot
of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to
women.
Said differently, guys try to get women
to like them by doing whatever the woman
wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they
can walk all over... Women aren't attracted
to Wussies!
MISTAKE 9
Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do
In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better
than men at reading body language. That's
ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But
for example, if you're out on a date with
a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows
it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do
and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just
sit there looking at her and getting nervous,
she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and
dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number,
asking her out, kissing her, getting physical...
everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation,
you will probably screw it up... and LOSE
EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY
how to go from one step to the next with
a woman... from the first meeting, all the
way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE 10
Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men
from EVER having the kind of success with
women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves
look weak or helpless. We don't like to
ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how
I figured out how to be successful with
women...
About five years ago I became fed up with
the fact that I didn't know how to approach,
meet, and get dates with women that I was
attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
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